Lying is always a form of control. Some people are pathological liars, having learned that they get a rush from manipulating others with lies. But most people lie when they are afraid of the consequences of telling the truth. Lying may be one end of a relationship system, with anger and judgment on the other end. Whether the relationship is a primary one between mates or between parents and children, or a relationship between friends or between co-workers, lying may be a part of it when fear of anger and judgement is an issue. Most people do not know how to handle another’s anger and judgement and may revert to being the child they were when they learned to lie to their parents to avoid punishment.
If you want to trust that people are not going to lie to you, then you need to shift your intention in your relationships from controlling to learning.
Copyright: © 2005 by Margaret Paul
URL: http://www.innerbonding.com
Monday, 18 June 2007
Sunday, 17 June 2007
Joe Vitale Message
It is a message I got recently from Joe Vitale.
"Hi Kasia
I love the television show Boston Legal. In a recent episode
actor William Shatner, playing egomaniac attorney Denny Crain,
sits in a chair, closes his eyes, and tries to attract actress
Raquel Welch.
I loved seeing the movie The Secret and the Law of Attraction
getting spoofed on national TV. After all, I'm in the movie and
love a good laugh, too. Spoofs can be fun.
And that's what the episode was: a spoof.
At the end of the show Shatner's character attracts one of the
greatest female comedians of all time: Phyllis Diller.
Shatner is shattered.
He thinks "The Secret" didn't work.
He mumbles, "I'm going to sue those people."
What did Shatner's character do wrong?
Why didn't he attract what he said he wanted?
Here's my take on it:
1. Shatner's character sits and concentrates, finger to
forehead, and looks like he has a headache. There's no joy on
his face. The Law of Attraction works when you feel the end
result of what you want, not just think about it. Denny Crain
isn't even close.
2. Shatner's character takes no action at all. None.
Considering the character he plays, surely he could have picked
up the phone and called around. Surely someone in his power
circle would be able to connect him to Welch. I could get to
Welch if I really wanted to. As you may recall, I'm the guy in
the movie The Secret who says, "The Universe likes speed. Take
ACTION."
3. Shatner's character attracts what he thinks he doesn't want:
Phyllis Diller. This is SO relevant. You always attract what you
un-consciously think is right for you. In the TV show, Diller is
actually an old flame. She represents sex to him, or at least
did at one time. This is so Freudian. In order to get what you
want, you have to get clear inside of the old programs. Until
you do, you won't get what you say you want, you'll get what you
unconsciously want.
Finally, Shatner's mumble at the end about suing "those people"
is also revealing.
It shows Shatner's character is still a victim, powerless to
the world unless he resorts to the one thing he can trust: the
legal system.
Again, I loved the episode on Boston Legal.
Just remember it was a spoof.
If you want to use The Secret to attract what you want, focus
on your intention, add feeling, take action and enjoy the
process.
And then maybe you can attract Raquel Welch.
Dream Big!
Dr. Joe " (Joe Vitale)
"Hi Kasia
I love the television show Boston Legal. In a recent episode
actor William Shatner, playing egomaniac attorney Denny Crain,
sits in a chair, closes his eyes, and tries to attract actress
Raquel Welch.
I loved seeing the movie The Secret and the Law of Attraction
getting spoofed on national TV. After all, I'm in the movie and
love a good laugh, too. Spoofs can be fun.
And that's what the episode was: a spoof.
At the end of the show Shatner's character attracts one of the
greatest female comedians of all time: Phyllis Diller.
Shatner is shattered.
He thinks "The Secret" didn't work.
He mumbles, "I'm going to sue those people."
What did Shatner's character do wrong?
Why didn't he attract what he said he wanted?
Here's my take on it:
1. Shatner's character sits and concentrates, finger to
forehead, and looks like he has a headache. There's no joy on
his face. The Law of Attraction works when you feel the end
result of what you want, not just think about it. Denny Crain
isn't even close.
2. Shatner's character takes no action at all. None.
Considering the character he plays, surely he could have picked
up the phone and called around. Surely someone in his power
circle would be able to connect him to Welch. I could get to
Welch if I really wanted to. As you may recall, I'm the guy in
the movie The Secret who says, "The Universe likes speed. Take
ACTION."
3. Shatner's character attracts what he thinks he doesn't want:
Phyllis Diller. This is SO relevant. You always attract what you
un-consciously think is right for you. In the TV show, Diller is
actually an old flame. She represents sex to him, or at least
did at one time. This is so Freudian. In order to get what you
want, you have to get clear inside of the old programs. Until
you do, you won't get what you say you want, you'll get what you
unconsciously want.
Finally, Shatner's mumble at the end about suing "those people"
is also revealing.
It shows Shatner's character is still a victim, powerless to
the world unless he resorts to the one thing he can trust: the
legal system.
Again, I loved the episode on Boston Legal.
Just remember it was a spoof.
If you want to use The Secret to attract what you want, focus
on your intention, add feeling, take action and enjoy the
process.
And then maybe you can attract Raquel Welch.
Dream Big!
Dr. Joe " (Joe Vitale)
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